Lifetime Achievement Award for Helen D. Stone, MSW
Almost a half-century ago, CWLA’s pioneer work in foster care education and foster parent advocacy was realized largely through the effort of former CWLA staff member Helen D. Stone, who served during the 1960s and 1970s as CWLA’s Foster Care Project Director. CWLA was contacted by Helen’s family this past spring to announce her transition from her home in New York to a senior care residence, coincidentally near the headquarters of the National Foster Parent Association (NFPA) in Minneapolis.
CWLA and NFPA deemed it timely to honor Helen with a Lifetime Achievement Award for her extraordinary commitment to advocacy for foster parents, especially foster parent training. Helen envisioned an organization offering foster parents a voice that had been missing for decades. She worked with the late Beatrice Garrett, MSW, Foster Family Services Specialist for the U.S. Children’s Bureau, and together, they created the National Foster Parent Association.
Helen and Beatrice arranged for CWLA to receive a three-year demonstration project grant from the U.S. Children’s Bureau to officially launch the NFPA. This visionary work encompassed ten goals:
Through the 1970s, Helen worked tirelessly to advance a number of other innovations. She developed Parenting Plus, the first nationally disseminated curriculum for foster parent training, which included 16-millimeter training films such as “Don’t Condemn Me Until You Know Me,” to help sensitize foster parents and foster care workers to the needs of the parents of children in care. She advocated for standards for family foster care, still a cornerstone of CWLA’s contribution to the field.
Helen also became a mentor to a new generation of family foster care educators and trainers. In the late 1970s, she provided consultation to me as a curriculum developer for the Nova Model of Foster Parent Recruitment, Assessment, and Training; Nova became the predecessor for MAPP (Model Approach to Partnerships in Parenting), and CWLA’s PRIDE Model of Practice. I had the privilege of meeting Helen when she came to consult on the Nova Model. She invited me to work with her on the development of training programs at CWLA, as well as for another federally funded advocacy endeavor, National Action for Foster Children. It was through that systems-change innovation that foster parent training spread across the country.
Reprinted with permission from the Child Welfare League of America, © 2019
Helen’s move near the headquarters of the NFPA made it perfect for a visit from Mike Peterson, Executive Director of PATH (which houses the NFPA), and Sarah Shafer, NFPA Administrative Coordinator, to present Helen with flowers in a vase inscribed with her Lifetime Achievement Award from NFPA and CWLA.
During what would be her last months, Helen’s family updated CWLA staff with the message that Helen had family who visited her daily, and that she “loves hearing from all her friends.” They reminded us of the “enthusiasm and passion that Helen brought to every interest she had, from children to juggling to travel.”
At the end of May, Helen’s family wrote again, telling us that she passed away peacefully on May 22. We send our deepest sympathies to her family and friends. And we bid a fond farewell to a visionary, mentor, and true advocate for children and for family foster care.
Eileen Mayers Pasztor, DSW, is a professor in the School of Social Work at California State University, Long Beach; a CWLA trainer/consultant; and former CWLA National Family Foster Care Program Director.